Signs of Domestic Abuse

All relationships are different

There isn't such thing as a 'normal' relationship, but there are healthy and unhealthy relationships.  

If you are worried about someone there are some signs you may spot which could be indicators of domestic abuse. 

You may see Emotional Signs, Physical signs or Behaviours which make you feel that something is not right.

We will now look at these in more detail.  

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Emotional Signs

Domestic abuse can take a serious emotional toll, creating a sense of helplessness, hopelessness, or despair.

Domestic abuse can cause people to believe that they will never escape the control of the abuser.

They may be in a constant state of alertness to the point they can never completely relax. 

Or they may show signs of low mood and depression.  

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              Physical Signs

If someone is being physically abused, they will likely have frequent bruises or physical injuries consistent with being punched, choked, bitten or knocked down

They'll likely have a weak or inconsistent explanation for these injuries or try to cover them up with clothes or makeup.  

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      Signs of Controlling Behaviour

If you notice that someone seems to be controlled or manipulated in all areas of their life, it could be a sign they are being abused.

This can include controlling their finances and how they spend their time.  They might say their partner is "jealous" or "possessive"

They might initially see this behaviour positively- it might make them feel safe, looked after or cared about. 

  They can’t always see the damaging effects.  

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